Wednesday, December 31, 2014

2015 Aspirations

 
This year I've tried to keep it simple with my goals. In 2015, I want to slow down and really enjoy the wonderful people and things around me. And I think these aspirations will get me on the right track :)
 
1. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff
 
"Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be." -Abraham Lincoln
 
I have a tendency to let things "go all over me." That is my phrase for when I get so stressed out about something it completely consumes my thoughts until it is resolved. And to be honest, most of the things I let effect me this way are not important. I would like to get better at telling the difference between something that matters and something that simply does not. I want to fill the time I spend stressing with things that I love, like crafting and yoga. I think this will help me breathe a little easier and be a little happier!

 
2. Get Better Sleep 
 
"There is a time for many words, and there is also a time for sleep." -Homer
 
I need a schedule. In almost everything I do, I love to have structure! But, my sleep is just one of those aspects of life I neglect and it gets a little chaotic. Some nights I get 5 hours of sleep and others I get 10 {let's be real, it's usually closer to 5!}.  There always seems to be something so much more interesting to do. I would really like to give my ZZZ's a little more attention this year.
 
3. Spend More Time Outdoors
 
"I felt my lungs inflate with the onrush of scenery-air, mountains, trees, people. I thought, "This is what it is to be happy." -Sylvia Plath
 
I'm guilty of coming home from work, going into my apartment, and only venturing out if I need groceries or if I left something in my car. I would like to change this in 2015. I want to read outside on a blanket when it's warm; I want to build a snowman when it's blustery; I want to go kayaking in the summer. I'd like to turn off my phone for a bit and more fully notice the world around me. I think this will also foster more physical activity too, which we're always shooting for, right?? ;)
 
4. Be More Thoughtful
 
"A small group of thoughtful people could change the world, indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." -Margaret Mead
 
This one applies to a lot of areas of my life! First and foremost, I want to be better at calling family members I don't see often enough, and be more present in the conversations I have with those who are around me. Secondly, I'm really good at saying my prayers and reading my scriptures daily, but I want to thoughtfully ponder what I'm saying and reading. And lastly, I want to consciously think about what I'm putting in my body so I can be a bit healthier. Next year, I want to focus a little less on the frivolities of life and a little more on the things that actually add to it .
 
And that's all I got :) I would love to hear some of your 2015 aspirations!
 
 I wish you all a happy and safe New Year's Eve!!
 
 
  
 
 
 

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

L+L//Tumbled Jewelry Giveaway!!

 
 
I've teamed up with Tumbled Jewelry to give away a beautiful bookmark and bangle! Amanda, the creative genius behind Tumbled, is a good friend of mine from my Southern Virginia days and is just as creative and fun as her jewelry!! It has been such a great experience to collaborate with her on this project.
Be sure to check out the rest of her beautiful pieces on the Tumbled Jewelry etsy page here.
 
Enter to win on my Instagram page @lovenliterature.
 
**For a bonus entry, leave a comment below with one of  your 2015 resolutions**

Winner will be announced on New Years Eve!
 
Tell your friends ;)
 


Saturday, December 27, 2014

Review #4: "The BFG" by Roald Dahl


Favorite Quotes:

"Sophie, crouching underneath the blanket, felt strong fingers grasping hold of her, and then she was lifted up from her bed, blanket and all, and whisked out of the window.
 If you can think of anything more terrifying than that happening to you in the middle of the night, then let's hear about it." -page 17

"The Giant let out a bellow of laughter. 'Just because I is a giant, you think I is a man-gobbling cannybull!' he shouted. -page 25

"If it is very warm weather and a giant is feeling as hot as a sizzlepan, he will probably go galloping far up to the frisby north to get himself an Esquimo or two to cool him down. A nice fat Esquimo to a giant is like a lovely ice-cream lolly to you." -page 37

"And the bubbles were wonderful. Sophie could actually feel them bouncing and bursting all around her tummy. It was an amazing sensation. It felt as though hundreds of tiny people were dancing a jig inside her and tickling her with their toes. It was lovely." -page 68

"'The matter with human beans,' the BFG went on, 'is that they is absolutely refusing to believe in anything unless they is actually seeing it right in front of their own schnozzles." -page 99

About the Main Character:

This book really has two main characters, Sophie and the BFG, but I honestly don't think I could give a description of the BFG that would do him justice...you'll have to read the book to know all about him! Sophie is the little girl with the extreme misfortune of being carried off by a giant in the middle of the night! Yet, the real story begins when she realizes her misfortune may not be a misfortune after all. The BFG becomes her friend and together they solve the problem of Giant Country...namely the 9 other giants who reside there and sneak of each night to gobble up poor "human beans!" She is clever girl with a very interesting best friend.

Another Character to Note:


The majority of the book is just Sophie and the BFG, but the Queen of England does make an appearance. What I love about her addition to the book is how straightforward she is in dealing with what Sophie and the BFG have to tell her. The problem is presented to her and within 24 hours it is dealt with completely. Quite direct, that Queen of England!

Plot Breakdown:

1. The Little Girl Who Saw Him...The BFG had no choice, but to take Sophie.

2. Running to Giant Country...the BFG could be an Olympic sprinter and Sophie takes a peek at the 9 man-eaters.

3. Breakfast...Is Sophie on the menu?

4. The B-F-G's J-O-B...Sophie learns what the BFG spends his evenings doing.

5. A Plan and a little Mixing...by putting their minds to it, Sophie and the BFG contrive a way to save the people of the world from the 9 man-eaters.

6. A Little Assistance...introducing the Queen of England!

7. A Big Hole and a House with Big Doors...with the man-eaters taken care of, the BFG and Sophie each get their reward.

8. Learning and Writing...a wrap-up of what Sophie and the BFG did after leaving Giant Country. 

Something Interesting to Note:

My favorite thing about this book is the quirky language used by the BFG. Dahl evidently put so much time and thought into what the BFG called everything. It makes the book feel charged with imaginative, playful energy! And who doesn't love a little word play, "right or left?"
Right, that's what I thought :)

Should you read The BFG before you die?

My opinion would be yes, you should! Though that may be because because I love it so much. To me, it is one of those books you should really read as a child, but, if you missed it, it's never too late to read The BFG. It's a great little reminder of the wonder that is being a child. It will definitely be something I read again!






  




Friday, December 26, 2014

A Very Merry Christmas

 
 
Merry {late} Christmas!!! I hope everyone spent the past couple of days with family, eating until the couldn't anymore, giving and receiving gifts, and remembering the real reason of Christmas!! Trager and I switch off Christmas and Thanksgiving with our families each year so this Christmas we are in St. George with our Hintze fam :) And our holiday season has been so much fun so far! (The holiday season doesn't end until New Years...right?!)
 
 
 
 
 
On Christmas Eve Trager, Taylor Ence, Tegan, Papa D, and I all loaded up to go on a horse ride. We rode for about 2.5 hours and for sure the highlight of the trip was when I almost got bucked off my horse! I had gotten a little comfortable and after riding up and down hills through a million little bushes we came to a dirt road. Trager, Taylor, and Papa D had all galloped ahead while Tegan and chatted behind them. And then we decided it was time to catch up. I kicked my horse (Paco) and clicked my tongue and he shot forward. At first I was fine, but the more he ran the less in rhythm I became. At one point I could've sworn I was going to go over his neck! Finally, after a few swear words (whoops!) and clutching the saddle horn for dear life, I got Paco to stop. My legs shook for about twenty minutes afterwards, but overall Papa D said it was win because I stayed on! 
Also, I can't get enough of those pretty red mountains!
 

 
After we got home from riding and warmed up a bit, it was time for Christmas Eve dinner! Ty always makes prime rib and twice baked potatoes and lots of other goodies. Twice baked potatoes seriously might be my favorite thing to eat! After we ate, we each got to open up a few gifts. One of them was from Trager's grandpa and his wife who are serving an LDS mission in Wisconsin and Michigan. They are currently serving in the upper peninsula of Michigan so we all got some sort of "yupper" t-shirt. It was pretty cute! Then we got to open our "surprise gift" from Ty and Papa D. Of course, it was our Christmas jammies! This year Ty got all of us a really hilarious t-shirt. Mine read, "I'm silently correcting you grammar!" I think she nailed ;) After gifts we watched a movie about the nativity and it was the perfect way to end the night!
 
Our Christmas morning was filled with gifts, laughter, and cinnamon rolls...one of my favorite combinations! We spent the rest of the day watching movies and being around our family. One of the things I was most excited for this Christmas was to talk to my sister, Megan, who is serving an LDS mission in  Santa Rosa, CA. I write her emails most days, but getting to hear her voice was really special :) I may have cried through most of the phone call. I'm just so proud of how well she is doing! Sister Gowens is such an example to me!
 At the end of the night, all the girls went on a car ride to see the Christmas lights in the area. We went to about 6 houses that each had music coordinated with their lights. It was so neat to see! Finally, we went to a look out point over St. George and even though the picture below doesn't do it justice, it was so pretty to see all the lights of the houses surrounding the St. George temple.
 
 
I hope everyone continues to have a wonderful holiday season!!
 
Book review up tomorrow...
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

The Reason for the Season

^^^I can't get enough of this handsome guy! So fun to spend extra time together with the holiday from work!^^^
 
Last night, Trager and I went with all the Hintze girls to the Tuachan Live Nativity. We were hurrying in and by the time we got there it was standing room only, as it was the last show before Christmas, but we crept down the stairs and were able to watch with a great view! The performance was only 15 minutes long, but it depicted the events of the night of the Savior's birth so sweetly. It was the perfect reminder of why we celebrate this time of year! To watch that young mother with her newborn babe in the manger truly showed the humble beginnings of the Lord. I know the story, but to see it out acted was a new experience. It's so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of gift buying and traveling. Yet, there is so much more to the season! This performance helped me to slow down and ponder the life and purpose of the Savior. I'm just so grateful we all got to watch this little reminder!
 
 
This video is another favorite that helps me to ponder the blessings I should be thankful for during the holiday season!
 
 


Monday, December 22, 2014

5 Favorite Literary Men

Jay Gatsby of The Great Gatsby
Mystery and desperation...those are my words for Jay Gatsby. He undergoes this huge transformation from James Gatz of North Dakota to Jay Gatsby of New York all for the hope of being the type of man who could win Daisy Buchanan over. I think I'm drawn to his character because he feels everything to it's highest intensity. By the end of the novel, you're sad for the tragic end that befalls Gatsby, but his impression lingers on. He may not have had a lasting effect on Daisy (that we know of) but he leaves his audience wanting more, something better for poor Jay Gatsby.

 Fitzwilliam Darcy (Mr. Darcy) of Pride and Prejudice 
Oh. Mr. Darcy! I could write poetry about this man and his love affair with Miss Elizabeth Bennett. He is a wealthy man who is very quick to judge the situations and people around him...he also never hesitates to share his perspective. Although you want to hate him at times, you can't help but love Mr. Darcy because he is so adamantly trying to say and do the right thing. He just isn't always correct on what is right. By the end of the book, he gets it straight and gets the girl!

Augustus Waters (Gus) of The Fault in Our Stars
It had been a long time since I had really connected with the love story of a book, but then I read The Fault in Our Stars. And as sad and somewhat predictable it is, I think I loved it so much because of the ever-positive and ever-charming Augustus Waters. The Augustus/Hazel love story just would not be the same without his quotable thoughtfulness. He takes Hazel by the hand and basically says, "I love you, and you're going to love me...just wait!" And he delivers. Augustus beckons the audience to the idealistic thoughts of young love. He's basically the literary version of "butterflies in your stomach."

James Stevens (Mr. Stevens) of The Remains of the Day
Confession time...I genuinely disliked Mr. Stevens for a large portion of this novel because he seemed so pretentious and cold. Lucky for me, I was reading this book while taking a class from Professor Cluff (he's the man) and he explained his character in a way that made him likeable. Mr. Stevens is so dignified and traditional that he almost can't turn it off to be normal. He misses his chance with Miss Kenton because of this struggle. I kept thinking, "He really could have been happy with her!!" But, his greatest joy is a job well done and therefore his life has been well lived. Mr. Stevens is an enigma and I love reading about him because there is always something new to catch.

Philip Pirrip (Pip) of Great Expectations
Pip is a mixed character for me. About 50% of the time I think he is such a self-involved brat and then the other 50% he seems to get it together to do the right thing. As is normal for Dickens, there are about 948 story lines to follow in this book. Pip helps a convict. Pip spends time with and falls in love with Estella while Miss Havisham looks on happily. Pip is doomed to be a blacksmith. Pip inherits money and gets to be a gentleman. Estella's love life is a mess (thank you, Miss Havisham.) And all the while poor Pip has to navigate the mess while not being horrible. He's successful by the end, and simply from watching him flounder for so long, you can't help but love him for it!

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Review #3: "A Christmas Carol" by Charles Dickens


Favorite Quotes:

"Bah!" said Scrooge, "Humbug!" -page 24
 
 "If I could work my will," said Scrooge indignantly, "every idiot who goes about with 'Merry Christmas' on his lips, should be boiled with his own pudding, and buried with a stake of holly through his heart. He should!" -pages 24-25
 
"The curtains of his bed were drawn aside; and Scrooge, starting up into a half-recumbent attitude, found himself face to face with the unearthly visitor who drew them: as close to it as I am now to you, and I am standing in the spirit at your elbow." -page 51
 
"Without venturing for Scrooge quite as hardily as this, I don't mind calling on you to believe that he was ready for a good broad field of strange appearances, and that nothing between a baby and a rhinoceros would have astonished him very much." -page 75
 
"God bless us every one!" said Tiny Tim, the last of all. -page 88
 
"If you should happen, by unlikely chance, to know a man more blest in a laugh that Scrooge's nephew, all I can say is, I should like to know him too. Introduce him to me, and I'll cultivate his acquaintance." -page 93
 
"I am as light as a feather, I am as happy as an angel, I am as merry as a schoolboy. I am as giddy as a drunken man. A merry Christmas to everybody! A happy New Year to all the world. Hallo here! Whoop! Hallo!" -page 129
 
About the Main Character:
 
Ebenezer Scrooge is our very miserable and hateful main character at the beginning of the novella. He has these bleak opinions about everything and makes no hesitation to share them with anyone and everyone who will stand still long enough to hear them. He is a wealthy man, but refuses to use it for the better-meant of others. After a day of hating on Christmas, Scrooge is visited by his old business part...in the form of a ghost. From there, Scrooge encounters other ghosts and is shown the error of his ways.
 
Another Character to Note:
 
Tiny Tim is begging for me to write about him, but I think his father, Bob Cratchit, is a little less known and just as interesting. Bob works for Scrooge at a very low salary despite the long hours he puts in. Scrooge makes no real connection with people at the beginning of the book, and therefore does not know about the Crachit family's hardships until he visits them with one of the ghosts. Tiny Tim is the apple of his father's eye and is with him throughout the novella.  Bob takes extra care of his son because of his handicaps and illness. Their interactions and Bob's obvious strong love for the boy are what make them so intriguing as characters.
 
 
Plot Breakdown:
 
1. Introducing the Jerk....Hello, his name is Scrooge!
 
2. A Humbug Christmas to You...okay, we get it Scrooge, you don't like Christmas.
 
3. The Marley Wake-Up Call...Scrooge is given warning of the ghostly encounters to come.
 
4. A Peak at the Past...Scrooge is filled with regrets over Christmases gone by, but the audience also gets a perspective of why he is the way he is.
 
5. The Happy Days of the Present...Scrooge finds out, very clearly that $$$ does not mean happiness as he sees so many people happier than he is with much less.
 
6. Sinister Future Days...the lesson truly sinks in when Scrooge gets a look at what's to come if he does not change his ways.
 
7. Merry Christmas...finally!!
 
Something Interesting to Note:
 
I tried to give examples of this in the quotes I chose to include, but throughout the novella Dickens addresses the audience multiple times. He wrote A Christmas Carol in hopes of rejuvenating the traditions and cheer associated with the holiday. I think he adds in these lines directed at the audience to draw them further into the story and make them connect with the message he was trying to get across. It also adds some of that comedic relief I mentioned before.
 
Should you read A Christmas Carol before you die?
 
I would have to say yes simply because this is such a Christmas classic! Although I think reading it once is enough, I think this little piece will be something I reread each holiday season. It perfectly sets the tone for Christmas. Dickens rejuvenated the holidays then and his novella did the same for me as I read it!
 




 

 

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

5 Favorite Literary Ladies

Elizabeth Bennett of Pride and Prejudice
Elizabeth is one of my favorites because she has spunk. In a time when women were expected to bob, she weaved and I loved her for it. Elizabeth taught me that I could be who I wanted to be, not what everyone thought I should be. But, I also love that she allowed herself to change. I would have missed out on a lot of wonderful experiences if  I hadn't been willing to give a little.

Josephine "Jo" March of Little Women 
This entry should really be for all the March sisters because they remind me so much of my sisters. And "Marmee" is my mother in literary form. She is always so even, caring, and protective of her girls! Reading about sisters has always been one of my favorite things and this book and these sisters will forever be a favorite because they remind me of some of my very favorite people!

Scout Finch of To Kill a Mockingbird
I remember thinking after being introduced to Scout, "This girl is older than her years." And even though Scout was so mature and wise in many ways, she was still a young girl. I loved watching her navigate the balance. Although most of the struggles Scout faces are bigger than any I've ever seen, I wanted to be like her because she stood up for what she knew was right at such a young age...even when the majority was against her.

Liesel Meminger of The Book Thief 
 Liesel caught my attention with her intense desire to learn. The poor girl saw much adversity before she made it to her new home. Yet, she allowed her new Papa to connect with her and in so doing opens a new door for herself: her Papa taught her to read. I love how passionate she was about the things that were important to her. She let the book burn her chest; she stole from the mayor; she hid her new Jewish friend. Liesel was brave.

Anne Shirley of Anne of Green Gables
 Anne won my heart over by page 5 or so. She is just so lovable! I think when it comes down to it, Anne's optimism is what makes her so personable. Her character is also a chasm of highs and lows; Anne goes from a puffy sleeve high to a haunted forest low. But, let's be honest here, every girl has been there before! And she's just so thankful for everything she's given. Even though her character is younger than I am, I learned a lot from her.

Who are some of your favorite literary ladies?






Tuesday, December 16, 2014

A Night at The Nutcracker


^^^Gotta love a $5 ornament...Laura got quite the deal!^^^

Over the weekend, my friend Laura and I went to see The Nutcracker in Oklahoma City. I went last year with my mom and sister, Hunter, and since then decided it was a must for the holiday season! I love ballet in general, but don't get to attend many performance which makes these outings to see The Nutcracker even more special! 

Laura and I went to dinner before heading up and it was just so fun to chat with her! I need to make more time like this with my friends. After we finished eating, it was time for the main event! The lobby was packed when we got there so our chance at well-lit pictures went out the window. Instead, we bought some treats and headed up to our section. One of my favorite parts of going to The Nutcracker is watching all the Mom's with their little girls. But, this year my favorite pair was a daddy/daughter duo. They caught the elevator up with us to our seats. The little girl had on a pink tulle skirt and a paper Burger King crown. Her curly red hair hung down under the crown and she sort of bounced from one foot to another with her nervous excitement. Her dad held her hand and looked almost as excited to be there. He was obviously not the type of guy who actively looks for chances to go to the ballet, but he did look like the type of Dad who got excited when he knew how much his daughter was going to love the show. It was really cute to see, even if it was just for the ride up!

The show was fantastic, as expected! The company had a big donation this year and were able to buy new costumes and a new set. It was absolutely beautiful! Another thing I love about The Nutcracker is the familiarity of the music. Once the second act begins, I recognize most of the pieces! And who could deny how wonderful the dancing is, I mean seriously...the Arabian dance kills me every time! Overall, it was definitely another memorable evening at
  The Nutcracker!







Sunday, December 14, 2014

Review #2: "Anne of Green Gables" by L.M. Montgomery


Favorite Quotes:
"Isn't it splendid there are so many things to like in this world?" -page 24
"It's been my experience that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly that you will." -page 44
"You set your heart too much on things, Anne," said Marilla, with a sigh. "I'm afraid there'll be a great many disappointments in store for you through life." -page 113
"I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers." -page 145
"There's such a lot of different Annes in me. I sometimes think that is why I'm such a troublesome person. If I was just the one Anne it would be ever so much more comfortable, but then it wouldn't be half so interesting." -page 195
 
"That's the worst of growing up, and I'm beginning to realize it. The things you wanted so much when you were a child don't seem half so wonderful to you when you get them." -page 282
"Oh, it's delightful to have ambitions. I'm so glad I have such a lot. And there never seems to be any end to them---that's the best of it. Just as soon as you attain to one ambition you see another one glittering higher up still. It does make life so interesting." -page 338
"I don't know what lies around the bend, but I'm going to believe that the best does." -page 365
About the Main Character:
Oh, my goodness I do not think I could adore a character more than I adore Anne of Green Gables!! We get to see a lot of growth from her as she goes from the "little orphan girl" to a young adult by the end of the novel. I loved how each chapter served as it's own little occasion that didn't really tie to the previous chapter or the one that followed. It allowed for Anne's character to be displayed in many different situations. I think the aspect of Anne that makes her so endearing is her imagination. Throughout the book she talks about how certain places or people allow for more "scope of imagination" than others. She is constantly renaming areas of Green Gables with more "fantastical" names like "The Lake of Shining Waters." Yet, Anne's imagination is not always to her benefit. There are several, usually hilarious, instances when Anne's imagination gets the best of her and causes chaos. It is also very sweet to read about the different interactions she has with the other characters. From her adoptive mother, Marilla to her "bosom friend" Diana Barry. L.M. Montgomery perfectly captures what it is to be an imaginative young girl when she writes Anne.  And even more so, Montgomery seamlessly transitions Anne into a more mature and conscientious young lady. I think at one point or another in the book, any female who reads it would identify a part of herself with Anne of Green Gables. She is one of my favorite characters I've ever come across!

Another Character to Note:
Gilbert Blythe, bless his heart, is Anne's unequivocal nemesis. He made the ultimate mistake of teasing her about her red hair and his fate was sealed. Anne would hate him till the end of time. And once young Anne made up her mind it was set. The girl can be a little stubborn! Throughout the book Gilbert is mentioned in small ways that keep him at the forefront of the audience's mind. The other little girls describe him as handsome and he is Anne's number one competition in school. One of my only complaints of this book would be that I wanted more Gilbert Blythe. But, then I realized there are more books and it makes sense why he is so limited. I'll definitely be reading more Anne of Green Gables so I can hear more about the dreamy Gilbert Blythe!!
Plot Breakdown:
1. A Boy by any Other Name would be...Anne! A mix-up at the orphanage results in a sweet red headed girl waiting for Matthew Cuthbert at the train station.
2. A Little Trouble and a Prayer...Marilla quickly learns what she signed up for with Anne.
3. Kindred Spirits and Bosom Friends...introducing the wonderful Diana Barry!
4. Carrots, Carrots!!...Poor Gilbert didn't stand a chance.
5. A Tragedy and a Miracle....Anne makes a mistake that costs her dearly, but she triumphs with the smarts from her orphan upbringing!
6. Recitation, Haunted Woods, and a Rotten Cake...Anne continues to navigate daily mishaps and her easily exicted imagination.
7. The Dress with Puffy Sleeves...maybe Anne isn't so "homely" after all!
8. A Queen's Girl...away from Green Gables, Anne pursues a dream.
9. First Touch of Loss...the realities of life catch up with Anne in Green Gables and make her rethink a lot her upcoming decisions.
10. What's Around the Bend??...So many new and exciting things are developing as the book comes to an end! (Thank you, L.M. Montgomery. We get it; you want us to read the other books!!)
Something Interesting to Note:
Marilla Cuthbert's internal struggle is one of my favorite aspects of the book. Anne was never what she planned on, but it is obvious that she quickly cherishes the little girl. Yet, over the course of the book, Marilla fights with herself to hide this affection so as not to spoil Anne. I find this interesting because I would get so frustrated with Marilla withholding her true feelings from Anne, but at the same time I completely understood why she did it! The wrestling Marilla does internally is well-explained and begs for the audience to engage in it too. It is for Anne's better meant, which is clearly effective as the story progresses, but it pulls at your heart strings, both for Anne and Marilla, as you read.
Should you read Anne of Green Gables before you die?
Yes, yes, yes you should! Behind the freckles and red hair, Anne is full of wisdom...which she doesn't share as wisdom and it makes it even more enjoyable to read and learn from. Anne of Green Gables isn't really teaching anything, but reminding the audience of the things we so often take for granted. I was reminded to enjoy the little things like violets and the turning of the leaves in the fall. I was reminded to cherish those friends who truly understand you and love you despite your flaws. I was reminded to be a little kinder and a little quicker to forgive. Anne is the perfect example of learning from your mistakes and allowing your imagination to help you through hard times. I especially liked Anne's optimistic perspective. It was rather timely heading into the Christmas season to think about all the good there is in life.
I would say it is a must read for all, but insist upon it for women! One of my new favorites!






Friday, December 12, 2014

Positivity.


focus on the good.

As I look ahead to 2015, I can't help but look back on 2014. And the resounding truth I can say about this past year is that it has been really, really tough. There have been lost dreams, big bills, the constant onslaught of work responsibilities, and so many other things. And if I'm being entirely honest, I've had a hard time getting past the negativity that seems to be within arms reach most days. I've, at times, let this year create a little dark cloud above my head and allowed myself to wallow under it's shadow. Often I thought, "I just need to fully feel this frustration or sadness or fright and it will go away." Well, let me tell you, it lingers.

And I've decided not to let it anymore.

There are far too many goods things that happen to me and around me on a daily basis for the hard things to get me down as much as they do. For the lost dreams, there have been new ones. For the big bills, there has always been means to take care of them. For the onslaught at work, there is growth and maturity that I wouldn't have gotten anywhere else. I have a family who loves me and supports me. I have the sweetest husband who holds me when I need it and tells me to keep going when he knows better what I'm capable of than I do. And above all this, as my mother would say, I have a Heavenly Father who knows I'm out here and has a plan for me. 
I just have to be patient.

So to help with the patience, I've taken notice of the little things that make the big and scary trials not quite so big and scary.

The Happiest of Little Things
1. Waking up to the rain
2. Christmas music...at the office, in the car, at the house
3. The little heater under my desk that keeps my feet warm all day
4. Late night texts and calls from Trager while he is away working
5. My glowing little Christmas tree
6. Extra one-on-one time with Hunter before she leaves for college
7. The excitement of finding a gift for a loved one that you think they will really enjoy
8. Volunteering my time for a good cause (I'm a sucker for a book fundraiser!)
9. Burt's Bees Chapstick
10. Weekend plans with friends

It won't always be easy, but it will always be worth it to look for the good. It's one of my top ambitions for 2015.

What are some of yours?

Book Review up tomorrow...





Wednesday, December 10, 2014

If My Life Were A Picture Book...







Page 1. Me and my handsome man on Thanksgiving!
Page 2. Five Pretty Pies (would've been prettier had I remembered to take a picture before cutting them...whoops!)
Page 3. All the girls before we hit the Black Friday sales :)
Page 4. The hot chocolate from a friend that saved the day!
Page 5. Pampered Chef Party Group
Page 6. Spinach Artichoke Dip and a Pizookie...the spoils of the party
Page 7. If you couldn't tell from my hand...the ducks were a little close for comfort

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

BBQ, Ducks, a Camel Ride, and a Light Show






^^^The Bridge of Lights...always wanted to take my favorite guy here!^^^

Last night Trager and I went with some of our friends to Chickasha, OK to see The Festival of Lights! This is one of my favorite Christmas traditions and I hadn't had a chance to go with Trager yet. The Greenwoods went with us and we had so much fun! 

^^^It was insane how much food came with our meals!^^^

First up was Jake's BBQ. My memory of that place was not consistent with what it is today! But, I have tendency to idealize things, so that might be my bad! Not sure this will continue to be part of the tradition, but it was a must for Trager's first trip :)


^^^The ducks were in heaven with Trager feeding them rolls!^^^

After dinner it was time for the lights! We brought a loaf of bread and spent a solid 20 minutes trying not to get pecked to death. Our friend, Brooklyn, that came with us was on top of the picnic table because they were swarming her so bad! When the bread was gone we had to make a run for it! 


^^^Was the $5 I paid to ride this camel worth....yes, yes it was!^^^

I had a combination of emotions about this camel ride. I was genuinely considered it was going to spit on me/ bite me, but it was also kind of like riding a drunk horse with a broken back. Brooklyn and her sweet babe, Ellidie, were riding with me, and I swear the man who was managing the ride was going to have a panic attack about the baby riding with us! Everything was fine so I guess we're pros at camel riding...who knew?!

^^^The boys needed a break after all the walking...and I still can't get over little Ellidie in her pink jacket, so cute!!^^^

We left just as it was closing and chatted the whole way home. I love those long car rides where everyone is tired so you talk and talk so you're not the first one to fall asleep :) 
Overall, a great way to get the season really started!




Saturday, December 6, 2014

Review #1: "The Handmaid’s Tale" by Margaret Atwood

 
In attempting to share my thoughts about the pieces I've been reading, I have two main goals. First, I would like to peak interest, but not over divulge to the point in there being no need to read the book. Second, I could ramble on and on about each piece, I'm sure, so I have limited myself to six categories that I will do my best to not overfill. Here goes nothin'!
 
 
Favorite Quotes:
 
"It isn't the running away they're afraid of. We wouldn't get far. It's those other escapes, the ones you can open in yourself, given a cutting edge." -page 8
 
"I have another name, which nobody uses now because it's forbidden. I tell myself it doesn't matter, your name is like your telephone number, useful only to others; but what I tell myself is wrong, it does matter." -page 84
 
"It's strange to remember how we used to think, as if everything were available to us, as if there were no contingencies, no boundaries; as if we were free to shape and reshape forever the ever-expanding perimeters of our lives. I was like that too. I did that too." -page 227
 
"I wish this story were different. I wish it were more civilized. I wish it showed me in a better light, if not happier, then at least more active, less hesitant, less distracted by trivia. I wish it had more shape. I wish it were about love, or about sudden realizations important to one's life, or even about sunsets, birds, rainstorms, or snow." -page 267
 
 
About the Main Character:
 
Offred is the name of the main character.  Offred is not her real name, and although she mentions it multiple times generally the audience is never made aware of her actual name. Offred is in relation to the man she is a Handmaid for in the story. His name is Fred, therefore she is called "Offred." The story is told in first person, so we are able to truly get perspective of all that happens to Offred. There are flashbacks, or memories really, throughout that let us know how Offred came to be a Handmaid and why her situation is so dire. Throughout the book I felt terribly for Offred.  She's lost her family and really any true semblance of the life she once lived. She has chosen to adopt a life as a vessel for which her body is used in hope of bringing life into the world. Offred is constantly on edge, and rightfully so, but it kept me tense throughout the book. One of my favorite things that Atwood did is she allowed Offred, as the narrator, to address the audience. Towards the end of the book, there is somewhat of a speech given by Offred that serves as an introduction to the final events of the novel that really helped me connect with Offred as a character. Granted, it happened late into the read, but it really ended on a high note as a result of the speech to the reader.
 
 
Another Character to Note:
 
Moira is a friend from Offred's past. She is mentioned frequently throughout the book in the memory sequences. Moira is the opposite of Offred in many ways. At least that is how Offred views her. She sees her as brave, defiant, and smart. Moira was meant to be a Handmaid, but ends up as something very different entirely (trying hard not to give too much away, if you couldn't tell!) I think Moira is interesting because she offers this sort of voice in Offred's head when she is faced with decisions in the book. Whenever Offred doesn't feel like she is capable of pushing the limits, she thinks of what Moira would say and it seems to propel her further than she may have gone without that subconscious pep talk. I like Moira because even in a world where very few freedoms are allotted her, she does what she can to make somewhat of a choice in her situation. The choice still leads to terrible circumstances, but Moira chose them for herself.
 
 
Plot Breakdown:
 
To avoid running anything, I've resorted to a list to help me offer an idea of what to expect without laying it all on the table.
 
1. Confusion, confusion, and more confusion. The beginning of the book is a touch hard to decipher because Atwood is trying to set the stage for what life is like at this point. There are a lot of titles for the people that take awhile to latch onto such as Commander, Guardian, Eye, Aunt, Wife, etc.
 
2. .The Daily Life of a Handmaid. We learn of the caution, monotony, and regime that the day-to-day requires of the Handmaid.
 
3. The First Ceremony. I'm not going to go into too much detail here, but it is extremely uncomfortable to read. Least favorite part of the book, but necessary.
 
4. The First Broken Rule. Again, not going to give much here, but the initiation of the rule being broken is not Offred's idea. That's all you get.
 
5. Flashbacks upon Flashbacks. Offred gets more anxious with the change of pace and there are more memories shared that help develop her character and what she's lost.
 
6. A Baby is Born and All Rejoice! This part is also strange. Very ritualistic. It gives more insight into the relationship between the Handmaid's and the Wives.
 
7. More Rules Broken and Hope is Alive. Offred is given signals from multiple people that there are others who are willing to break rules to get what they want. The anxiety of her situation increases.
 
8. A Baby by Any Means Necessary. Offred's life literally depends on her birthing a child...but it being the Commander's baby is more a preference than a rule.
 
9. Consequences. When the broken rules see the light of day things get ugly for a lot of people.
 
10. A Change of Circumstance. For better or worse?
 
 
Something Interesting to Note:
 
This was tough to pick because there are about a million interesting points made in this book. One that constantly caught my attention that doesn't give too much away is the color of the Handmaid's dresses. Red. I think this is interesting because of what the "Historical Notes" tell us at the end of the novel. Atwood added them as an explanation of the time that her novel takes place from the perspective of the those who have lived on afterwards. It says the red was "borrowed from the uniforms of German prisoners of war in Canadian "POW" camps of the Second World War era." While the Handmaids are certainly prisoners in a sense, the color stuck out to me for other reasons as I read. The color red is a symbol for things like warning, danger, and anger. These relate to the Handmaid's in ways, but the symbol I most easily think of when I imagine red is love. I found this ironic because one of the central ideas of the new regime the Handmaids live in is that they are not to feel love or passion. The sexual act they engage in is simply for procreation (as the Ceremony scene clearly indicates.) I think there is plenty other symbolism and metaphor in the book, but this color is one that constantly stuck out to me because it could directly contradict the purpose of the Handmaids.
 
 
Should you read The Handmaid's Tale Before You Die?:
 
The Handmaid's Tale is very relevant to many of the things going on in the world today. One of it's central themes is that of the role of a woman. What has happened in Offred's world is a direct result of hyper feminism. It's jarring throughout and so outlandish at times that it is hard to relate, but then Atwood writes one of her soul-piercing paragraphs that makes you stop and go, "Oh wait, I can relate to that!" and she sucks you back. I loved this book because it made me think. The inner-turmoil Offred experiences is so engaging that I found myself flipping the pages. 
Yet, I strongly disliked a few things. In my opinion, there is an enormous amount of "fluff" in the novel. The sentences are beautiful and well-constructed, but about a sixth of them just aren't necessary. I'm not a huge fan of description for the sake of description. Also, I know there is a point to it all, but some of the descriptions are too perverse for me. I literally almost put the book down after reading about "The Ceremony," but it's on the list and I will be reading, in full, all of those books.
 
So overall, I would say there are definitely some very interesting points to be discussed and pondered on from The Handmaid's Tale, but I'm don't think I would say it is a "must read."
 
I'd love to know thoughts on the review! What you loved, what you wished was here, but isn't? Anything at all :)